Issue 7 — 17 April 2026

The Pineapple

A collection shaped by the voices of the Brida Community

Created by Members of the Brida Community.
Compiled by Frank Peters, Founding Editor.
Shaped in Spirit by Janita Le Grange, Keeper of the Flame.

Contents

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There’s something wonderfully real about conversations that jump from workplace stress to ice cream shaped like spaghetti—and that’s exactly what happens when Babette in Germany chats with her facilitator, Janita, in South Africa. Their exchange feels less like a lesson and more like a glimpse into everyday life, where small wins, tired mornings, and sweet treats all mix together.

Babette begins on a “little Friday,” that curious in-between day where you’re technically working… but mentally already halfway into the weekend. After a week of holiday-mode mornings—complete with late wake-ups (her daughter slept until 10!)—the return to routine hits hard. “It was very difficult to wake up on Monday morning,” she admits. Between school runs and early office hours, the fatigue is real. And like many of us, Monday greets her not with calm, but with a flood of emails and responsibilities.

But beneath the tiredness, there’s a turning point in Babette’s work life. A long-standing challenge—a difficult colleague—is finally being resolved. “I must hang in there till end of May,” she explains, before revealing the good news: a new colleague will join her team in June. The relief is so overwhelming that Babette found herself in tears during a meeting. “I was crying… happiness,” she says. It’s a moment that speaks volumes about the emotional weight of workplace dynamics—and the hope that comes with change.

The new setup sounds promising: shared office space, better communication, and teamwork across Germany, Austria, and Switzerland. For Babette, this isn’t just a staffing update—it’s the possibility of calmer Mondays and fewer stressful moments staring at an overflowing inbox. “I work better when I’m relaxed,” she reflects honestly. “Then I don’t make so much mistakes.” It’s a simple truth, but one many professionals can relate to.

Of course, work isn’t all stress. Babette finds joy in small things: a good call with a customer, music playing in the office, and the satisfying feeling of finishing her tasks by 2:00 PM. There’s also her famous office snack stash—gummy bears, cookies, and dreams of upgrading to a bigger fridge stocked with iced coffee and chocolate. Her colleague even contributes money toward the snack fund, proving that sometimes workplace culture is built on sugar and shared smiles.

Outside the office, life is just as full. Babette spends time knitting, swimming, and navigating the chaos of family schedules. Exercise attempts—like dancing or Zumba—bring their own challenges, including sore knees and aching backs. Still, there’s a sense of humor about it all. Between suggestions of squats, magnesium, and maybe even a hula hoop comeback, it’s clear that staying active is a work in progress.

And then comes the highlight: a family cycling trip on Easter Sunday that ends with a visit to a café serving one of Germany’s most playful desserts—spaghetti ice cream. Yes, ice cream that looks like pasta. “You put it in a press… and then you get spaghetti,” Babette explains. Topped with fruity sauces that resemble tomato sauce, it’s as much a visual delight as a tasty one. The café doesn’t stop there—there are ice cream versions of fries, burgers, even lasagna. “It looks like the dish, but it’s a dessert,” she laughs.

Preferences matter, of course. Babette is firm on one thing: “I hate vanilla ice cream.” Instead, she leans toward mango, yogurt, and fruity flavors—proof that even in whimsical desserts, personal taste reigns supreme.

As their conversation winds down, plans are made, holidays are noted, and another week edges closer. It’s a simple exchange, but one filled with honesty, humor, and connection across continents. From workplace transformations to creative desserts, Babette’s story is a reminder that life is rarely perfectly balanced—but it’s often sweet in unexpected ways.

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Peeling Potatoes 43: The Day Work Forgot to Be Serious

By The Duo

We are live.
It’s Friday. Somewhere in the middle of April, apparently. Time has quietly packed its bags and left without telling anyone.

And that, oddly enough, feels like the perfect place to start.

Because today isn’t really about productivity or efficiency or squeezing more out of the day. It’s about something far more suspicious.

It’s about fun.

Not the loud, forced, corporate kind of fun with team-building exercises and trust falls. No. The quieter kind. The accidental kind. The kind that sneaks in while you’re not paying attention—usually when something has gone slightly wrong.

There’s a strange truth about work.

The more we try to control it, structure it, perfect it… the less fun it becomes.
And the moment we lose control—when the Wi-Fi dies, when the plan falls apart, when we forget what we were supposed to be doing—that’s when something human creeps back in.

At first, it’s frustration.
Then irritation.
Then a bit of quiet panic.

And then, slowly… acceptance.

And somewhere in that acceptance, something shifts. Conversations become easier. People start laughing again. The pressure drops. The “work” disappears, and what’s left is just… people figuring things out together.

Which, if we’re honest, is what work was supposed to be in the first place.

Making work more fun doesn’t come from adding something artificial.

It doesn’t come from confetti explosions—although that would be impressive for about three minutes before someone has to clean it up.

It comes from what we bring into the work.

Sometimes it’s perspective.
Sometimes it’s humor.
Sometimes it’s simply deciding that not everything deserves a reaction.

Because not every mess needs to be cleaned immediately. Not every problem needs to be solved right now. And not every moment needs to be optimized.

There’s a quiet kind of rebellion in stepping back and saying, “Not today.”

And strangely, that’s often when things start working again.

There’s also something else.

Fun doesn’t always look like fun.

Sometimes it looks like chaos. A cluttered room. A missed plan. A moment where everything feels slightly out of control.

But then, in the middle of that, someone does something unexpected. Something kind. Something human.

A small act that resets everything.

And suddenly, what felt like a bad day becomes something else entirely.

Not perfect. But better.

And then there are the little rituals we create for ourselves.

The things we “smuggle in.”

Not literally—although snacks have been known to play a role—but emotionally.

A sense of humor.
A refusal to take everything too seriously.
The ability to laugh at yourself when things go sideways.

These are the real tools.

Not systems. Not strategies. Not productivity hacks.

Just small, human choices that say: this doesn’t have to be miserable.

There’s also a quieter realization that comes with time.

The most enjoyable days at work are rarely the ones where everything goes according to plan.

They’re the ones where something clicks.

An idea lands.
A conversation flows.
A moment of clarity appears—often at a completely unreasonable hour.

And suddenly, work doesn’t feel like work anymore.

It feels like play.

Not easy play. Not effortless. But meaningful.

The kind where you lose track of time without even noticing.

And maybe that’s the point.

Fun at work isn’t something that gets added at the end, like a reward for surviving the day.

It’s something that lives inside the process.

Inside the conversations.
Inside the small wins.
Inside the moments where things don’t go perfectly—but still somehow work out.

So maybe the question isn’t: how do we make work more fun?

Maybe the better question is:

What are we doing that’s making it less fun than it could be?

And what would happen if we simply… stopped?

Because sometimes, the most productive thing you can do…
is step away, breathe, and let the day unfold a little differently.

And sometimes, that’s where the fun has been waiting all along.

That’s it for today.

We’ll be back next week—possibly with a plan, possibly without one.
But as always, we’ll figure it out as we go.

Because that, more than anything else, is the whole point of peeling potatoes.

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Weeds, Wine & War Stories: First Jobs That Built Us

By Nathalie; Rosii

There’s something about these Lunch meetings—you never quite know where you’ll begin. This time, it wasn’t with jobs at all, but with a quiet kind of longing.

Frank opened a magazine at two in the morning (as one does when life is in transition) and suddenly found himself back in South Korea. Not physically, of course—but emotionally, completely. Ten days had been enough. Enough to miss it. Enough for a tea ceremony, a moon bowl, and a few fleeting moments to settle somewhere deeper than expected.

Frank, ever the gentle realist, nodded from across the (virtual) table. That strange feeling of leaving something behind—it doesn’t ask how long you stayed. It just arrives.

And somewhere between discussing French-language magazines, elusive sponsors, and the humble reach of The Pineapple (“read by one and a half people,” according to Frank), the conversation slowly drifted—as it always does—into something more personal.

First Jobs: The Real Education

“Alright,” Frank announces, with the air of a mayor calling a town meeting to order, “tell me about your first job.”

And just like that, we’re off.

Natalie begins—not with a summer job or a paper route—but with the army. Straight out of school at eighteen. Signals. Telecommunications. Trucks with very large… “thingies” (a perfectly acceptable technical term at this table).

She describes climbing antennas, encrypting messages, connecting systems—eventually even linking to NATO. It sounds serious. It was serious. But the way she tells it, there’s a spark of play in it too. Like a game. Like the beginning of something she didn’t yet fully understand—but fully embraced anyway.

She describes climbing antennas, encrypting messages, connecting systems—eventually even linking to NATO.

Frank, naturally, suggests she was sending romantic messages to her future husband from the top of an antenna.

Some things don’t change.

From Classrooms to Check-In Counters

Rosie’s story arrives softly, like a familiar path.

Eighteen years old. A teacher’s assistant. Children aged two to five—tiny humans with big emotions and snack boxes filled with chocolate and fruit.

From there, she moves into tourism: travel agent, then airport work with a Brazilian airline. Tickets, hotels, lost luggage, worried travelers. And somewhere in all that movement, she finds something steady—her English improving, her confidence growing, her sense of purpose quietly forming.

“I think it is my mission to be a teacher,” she says.

No one rushes past that moment.

At this table, even simple sentences are allowed to carry weight.

Grit, Grapefruit, and Questionable Labor Laws

Frank’s first job?

“Well,” he begins, “I was a slave.”

A young white slave, to be precise—armed with nothing but determination and possibly a small gardening tool, battling endless weeds in Australia under the command of his father. Payment: food and lodging. Motivation: survival.

It’s funny. But also not entirely. Because underneath the humour sits something real: discipline, endurance, and the early discovery that sometimes, work is just… work.

His next chapter involves chickens. As most good stories do.

Cash Registers and Quiet Rebellion

Then comes Janita—our very own Fruitloop—who casually drops that she started working in a liquor store at sixteen.

Legally? Not quite. Practically? Completely.

Her parents knew the owners. The owners knew how to “make it work.” And suddenly, she had her own till, her own card machine, and her own quiet independence.

She worked Fridays and Saturdays, earned her own money, bought her own clothes, even had a cell phone contract—freedom wrapped in small responsibilities.

And also, a front-row seat to human nature.

Some customers were shy. Some were kind. And one woman came in multiple times a day for whiskey—sometimes knocking on the door at 8 a.m. That’s when the job stopped being just about scanning items and started becoming something else entirely.

A lesson, perhaps, in where to draw the line.

Bosses, Villains, and Survival Tactics

Naturally, the conversation takes a turn.

“If your first boss were a cartoon villain,” Frank asks, “what would their evil plan be?”

What follows is a gallery of characters:

And then, the final twist:

“If your first job were a survival game, what would keep you alive?”

The answers are perfect in their simplicity:

So What Did It All Teach Us?

Somewhere between antennas, airports, weeds, and whiskey, a quiet truth settles over the table.

First jobs are rarely about the job.

They’re about people. About learning how to show up, even when you don’t want to. About discovering that responsibility sometimes arrives before confidence—and that confidence follows anyway.

They teach you grit. Or empathy. Or how to scan a barcode under pressure while pretending you are definitely the owner’s daughter.

They don’t always feel important at the time. But later, they become stories. And those stories become… something like wisdom.

And just as the conversation winds down—with travel plans, family visits, and a gentle goodbye—Frank leaves us, as always, with the last word.

Not a conclusion. Just a thought hanging lightly in the air.

Maybe survival isn’t about strength or skill.

Maybe it’s about showing up—again and again—until even the hardest days start to feel like part of the story.

Preferably with snacks.

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Funny Work Fails (That Aren’t Actually Funny)

By Martin; Manfred

There are two kinds of work fails.

The ones that make a good story later.
And the ones where you’re just quietly grateful to still be alive.

Manfred belongs to the second category. Martin… negotiates between both.

Manfred: No Margin for Error

In Manfred’s world, a “small mistake” doesn’t really exist. Electricity doesn’t believe in “almost right.”

And yet, failure still finds a way in—usually in forms that are less dramatic, more… humiliating.

A bucket of black paint, for example.
A simple solution to reach a top shelf. Until the lid gives way and your foot disappears into it.

Or the classic: cutting a wire three times, and somehow, each time, it’s still too short.

There’s a quiet poetry to that kind of failure. Persistent. Illogical. Personal.

But then there are the other moments—the ones that arrive with a sudden realization and a very short sentence:

“Oh shit.”

These are not the moments you analyze. These are the ones you survive… and then actively forget.

Ask Manfred where chaos lives in his job, and he’ll tell you it doesn’t. It’s always someone else. Someone else’s cables. Someone else’s mess.

Which is, of course, exactly what everyone says—right before things go wrong.

And when they do?

Sometimes you fix them quietly.
Sometimes reality and the rulebook simply don’t align.
And in those cases, the less said, the better.

It’s not pride. It’s survival.

Now, close to retirement, Manfred offers advice to the next generation:

“Deceive, disguise, take off.”

Then, after a pause, the serious version:

This job is risky. The consequences are real. And not all mistakes end as stories.

Martin: Failing Under Observation

Martin’s failures are less likely to cause physical harm.

But they come with something arguably worse: witnesses.

Preferably ones who knew you as a child.

Working in his father’s company didn’t come with privileges. It came with expectations—and a permanent audience that struggled to see him as anything other than “the kid.”

No pressure. No stress.

Naturally, mistakes followed.

Not dramatic ones. Not even particularly memorable ones. Just enough to slowly become… normal.

“At some point,” Martin suggests, “my mistakes became the new norm.”

Which is a very efficient way of lowering expectations—though not necessarily recommended.

Explaining those mistakes was its own art form.

Dinner, for example, offered a safe space. A neutral zone.
A place where his father, temporarily, wasn’t able to double-check the facts.

A tactical advantage, if you think about it.

And what about disappointment?

“Disappointing one’s father is difficult,” he says.
“Boss, so what?”

There’s a hierarchy there. And it’s not the one on the org chart.

Bigger Companies, Smaller Visibility

You might think moving to a larger company would make failure easier to hide.

More people. More processes. More places to disappear.

But Martin doesn’t quite agree.

In his world, safety is still paramount. Audits are strict. And mistakes don’t vanish—they just become documented.

Still, if you insist on asking for a strategy, he offers one:

“Don’t mention it and hope it goes away by itself.”

Which is less a recommendation and more an observation of human nature.

So, What’s Worse?

A dangerous mistake… or a harmless one that follows you forever?

Manfred doesn’t need to answer. His silence says enough.

Martin, more diplomatic, is clear:

Dangerous mistakes are worse.
The others?

They become stories.

The Quiet Agreement

Some failures stain your shoes with black paint.
Some follow you into dinner conversations.
Some disappear into paperwork.
And some stay with you longer than you’d like.

The humor helps. It always does.

But underneath it, there’s a quiet agreement between the two:

Take the work seriously.
Even if you don’t always take yourself that way.

Because in the end, the best kind of work fail…
is the one you get to talk about later.

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I Didn’t Plan This — I Just Followed What Felt Different

By Alexander

I remember standing next to a machine for eight hours, doing nothing but watching.

At the time, it didn’t feel dramatic. It wasn’t a bad day. It wasn’t even a hard day. It was just… quiet. Repetitive. Predictable. A piece of metal in front of me, a process to follow, and the feeling that tomorrow would look almost the same.

But what I didn’t realize back then was that something inside me was already moving.

Not away from the work—I actually liked the work. That’s the strange part when I look back. I never had that feeling people talk about, waking up in the morning and thinking, I don’t want to go there. I didn’t have that. I was motivated. I was curious. I learned how to file, drill, mill, grind. Later, I worked on big CNC machines, programmed them, mounted the workpieces, understood precision in a very physical way.

And then everything changed again when I moved into programming. Suddenly I was sitting in an office, working on a computer. Same industry, completely different world.

After that, I worked with EDM machines—slow, incredibly precise. Time didn’t matter as much anymore. What mattered was accuracy. Micrometers. Details you couldn’t even see properly with your eyes.

Every step was different. Every step taught me something.

And still, nothing felt wrong.

That’s why the shift didn’t come from frustration. It came from something else.

I think the first real signal was a person.

Every week, a salesman came into the company. And when he walked in, something changed in the room. You could feel it immediately. People looked up. Conversations shifted. There was energy.

Every week, a salesman came into the company. And when he walked in, something changed in the room. You could feel it immediately. People looked up. Conversations shifted. There was energy.

He had this… presence. Always in a good mood. Always open. And without trying too hard, he became the center of attention.

I didn’t think, I want to be like him.

But I noticed.

And sometimes, that’s how things start—not with a decision, but with attention.

Later, when I worked more independently, I began speaking with customers myself. At first, it was just technical conversations. What the machine can do. What’s possible. What’s not.

But then something interesting happened.

I enjoyed those conversations more than the machines.

I liked understanding how the customer thinks. What problems they have. Why they need something—not just what they need.

And slowly, a thought started forming.

Maybe this is something for me.

Not a clear plan. Not a dream job. Just a direction.

At the same time, I felt something else growing inside me—a need to develop. To move. To challenge myself. It wasn’t about escaping my job. It was about expanding who I was.

So I made a decision that didn’t feel completely safe.

I wanted to go into sales.

The strange thing is, when you say that out loud, people react. Especially people close to you. My mother told me many times, “This is not the right job for you.” She didn’t mean it in a bad way. She wanted to protect me. Sales has a certain reputation. People think it’s about talking all day, pushing products, being someone you’re not.

If you hear that often enough, it stays in your head.

So even when I decided to try, I didn’t feel confident. I felt… unsure. Like I was stepping into something I didn’t fully understand.

And maybe that was true.

Then Chris appeared.

It wasn’t planned. He was just another salesman visiting the company. But my boss knew what I was thinking about my future, and he connected us.

“Talk to him,” he said.

So I did.

And that changed something—not because Chris gave me one big moment of clarity. It wasn’t like that. There was no conversation where I suddenly thought, This is my future.

It was quieter.

We spoke in my free time. He explained things. He helped me prepare. He showed me what I didn’t know.

And what I didn’t know was a lot.

I wrote applications. The feedback was bad. Or there was no feedback at all.

So I changed my approach. I called companies directly. Sales managers. CEOs. I tried to convince them to give me a chance.

Still nothing.

Looking back, I understand why. I was trying to sell myself as a salesman—with no experience.

That’s probably the hardest product you can sell.

Then one day, Chris called me again.

“I think I have something for you.”

A company in Bavaria was looking for a new salesman. I sent my application. Then came the interviews—first with my future boss, then HR, then the CEO.

And I still remember one sentence.

“I think you are a tough person.”

At that moment, I didn’t fully understand what he meant. Today, I think I do.

I wasn’t experienced. I wasn’t polished. But I was willing to try. To learn. To stay when it gets uncomfortable.

And maybe that was enough.

The first year proved how important that was.

It was hard. Not physically. Mentally.

Cold calls. Rejection. Walking into companies where nobody knew your name, and even worse—nobody knew your company. Competing against big players everyone already trusted.

You doubt yourself. You think, Was this a mistake?

And at the same time, you have to convince others.

Convince them of your product. Your company. Yourself.

It’s a strange situation—to feel uncertain inside and still show confidence outside.

But I wasn’t alone.

There were people in the company who supported me. Who said, “It’s not easy, but you can do it.”

And slowly, something shifted.

Not in one big moment. In many small ones.

A conversation that went better than expected. A customer who opened up. A rejection that didn’t feel so heavy anymore.

You learn that sales is not what people think.

It’s not about talking all the time.

It’s about asking the right questions.

Listening.

Understanding.

“How long do you work here?”

“What do you do every day?”

“What challenges do you have?”

Simple questions. But if you ask them honestly, something happens. People feel it. They feel that you are interested—not just in selling something, but in them.

And when that happens, the conversation changes.

It becomes easier. Not easy—but easier.

That’s something I tried to explain recently when I found myself in a strange situation.

I was sitting across from someone who now has to step into sales himself. He’s the “Mayor” here in the Brida Community. He’s used to leading, organizing, building something. But sales is new for him.

And suddenly, I was the one explaining.

It felt… unusual.

Because I don’t see myself as a mentor. I’m still learning. Every day. But in that moment, I realized something.

I’ve come further than I thought.

Five years ago, I was standing next to machines.

Now I sit in front of customers and understand how they think.

And maybe more importantly—I understand how I think.

When he asked me for advice, I didn’t think about techniques or strategies first.

I thought about mindset.

Don’t be afraid.

Stay positive.

Don’t give up.

Because the problems you have today—fear, uncertainty, hesitation—they will disappear. Not because you avoid them, but because you face them again and again.

Three months later, they are no longer problems.

You have new ones.

And that’s a good sign.

In the last weeks, I’ve been thinking more about all of this. About the changes. About where I started and where I am now.

I don’t do that often. Usually, I just move forward. One meeting, one day, one week at a time.

But when I stop for a moment, I feel something I didn’t expect when I was younger.

Pride.

Not in a loud way. Not something I talk about often.

But a quiet feeling.

That I tried something uncertain.

That I stayed when it was difficult.

That I built something step by step.

And that my life today—work, family, routines—it all feels… right.

Not perfect. But right.

Sometimes I think back to that first week, standing between machines, watching.

If you had told me then where I would be now, I probably wouldn’t have believed you.

Not because it was impossible.

But because I hadn’t seen it yet.

And maybe that’s the point.

You don’t always see your future clearly.

Sometimes you just notice something.

A person. A feeling. A small moment.

And if you follow it long enough, it becomes a life.

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It began, as these conversations sometimes do, not with a grand idea, but with something so ordinary that it almost slipped by unnoticed.

A shirt.

Ritesh leaned slightly into the frame, adjusting himself, and the light caught the fabric in a way that made it stand out. Naturally, someone commented on it. It was brighter than usual, more expressive, almost as if it carried intention.

“You are wearing a very beautiful shirt.”

Now, what followed could easily have remained a light exchange, just another passing compliment. However, Ritesh’s response gave it a different weight. He didn’t say he had chosen it. Instead, he explained that his wife had chosen it for him. And then, almost instinctively, he added, “You know, we have to just say yes.”

At first, there was laughter. Yet, if one stayed with that sentence a little longer, it revealed something deeper. Because in that simple acceptance, there was a familiar balance—especially in his world—between individuality and shared decision-making. On one side, there is care, involvement, and a sense of partnership. On the other side, there is a quiet surrender of personal choice, not forced, but negotiated.

And yet, the story did not end there.

He wore the shirt to the office, and people complimented him.

“I was happy actually.”

So, almost without noticing, the conversation moved from clothing to something more human—the need for recognition, the quiet validation that comes from being seen, and the way we constantly adjust ourselves within different systems, whether in relationships or at work.

From there, quite naturally, the discussion opened into a much larger theme: the future of work.

At this point, what made the conversation particularly compelling was not just the topic itself, but the contrast in perspectives.

On one hand, there was Ismar, speaking from Brazil, looking back across decades of experience. On the other hand, there was Ritesh, in India, still navigating the realities of the modern workplace. And in between, the Mayor, guiding, connecting, and gently pushing the discussion forward.

So, when Ismar was asked to reflect on his childhood in the 1960s and 70s, the shift was immediate. Back then, the future was not something he consciously thought about. His world was shaped by immediacy—growing up on a farm, starting school later, focusing on play and daily life rather than distant possibilities.

However, even within that simplicity, certain ideas had stayed with him.

For instance, he remembered encountering the concept of a “TV phone”—a device where one could speak to someone and see them at the same time. At the time, this felt almost unreal, something closer to imagination than reality.

And yet, decades later, sitting in front of a screen and speaking across continents, he acknowledged it simply:

“It is happening.”

Notably, there was no excitement in his tone. Instead, there was a kind of quiet recognition. This reflects something essential about his way of thinking—he observes, processes, and accepts, rather than dramatizing or celebrating.

This reflects something essential about his way of thinking—he observes, processes, and accepts, rather than dramatizing or celebrating.

Nevertheless, what stayed with him most was not what had come true, but what had not.

Because, at that time, there had been a belief that machines would make life easier. That work would reduce. That people would eventually have more time, more freedom, perhaps even a better quality of life.

Instead, he observed the opposite.

People were working more, not less. Burnout, stress, and illness had become more common. In that sense, technological progress had not translated into human ease.

And so, as the conversation moved forward, this quiet contradiction lingered in the background.

In contrast, for Ritesh, the future was not something to reflect on from a distance. It was something he was actively experiencing.

Therefore, when he began speaking about his work, he did not jump directly into dissatisfaction. Instead, he started from the beginning, carefully building context—as he often does.

The first two and a half years of his career, he described as exciting, almost dream-like. There was learning, exposure, and a sense of movement. For someone who had grown up without easy access to resources, this phase carried a particular significance.

He recalled his college days—how he did not have a laptop when many others did, how he would stay back in labs to practice, how even acquiring a smartphone required a financial effort from his family.

Because of this, entering the workforce felt like progression.

On one side, there was growth, opportunity, and discovery.

However, over time, this began to change.

After roughly two and a half years, the work started to feel repetitive. The same tasks, the same environment, the same expectations. Gradually, the sense of excitement faded.

“There is nothing magical happening,” he said.

And again, his way of thinking followed a familiar pattern.

The good side of routine is stability—you know what to do, you earn, you maintain your life.

At the same time, the other side is stagnation—you are no longer learning or moving forward.

Then, just as this routine settled in, COVID disrupted everything.

He lost his job.

At that moment, the experience was difficult—there was uncertainty, disappointment, and a sense of instability. However, when he reflected on it later, his interpretation shifted.

“If that situation has never been there,” he said, “I was still working there.”

In other words, what initially felt like a setback eventually revealed itself as a form of forced movement. Without that disruption, he might have remained in a comfortable but limiting position.

This reflects something important about his mindset—he does not simply assign blame to circumstances. Instead, he tries to understand how situations shape him and what they reveal about his own tendencies.

From there, the conversation moved naturally toward artificial intelligence, and with it, a noticeable change in tone.

Initially, Ritesh acknowledged, there had been fear.

Fear of being replaced. Fear of not understanding the technology. Fear of losing relevance.

However, as time passed, that fear evolved.

It was no longer just about replacement.

Instead, it became about control.

Previously, he explained, people sold their effort—their ability to work consistently, to deliver, to persist. That effort had value.

Now, with AI, that value feels diminished.

Because AI can perform tasks faster, continuously, and without fatigue, expectations shift accordingly.

“You can be more productive.”

At first glance, this sounds positive. However, when examined more closely, it introduces pressure.

Because productivity is no longer measured against human limits.

He gave a practical example—a colleague leaving, and the organisation considering whether that role needed to be filled at all, since AI might compensate for it.

At that point, the issue becomes immediate.

On one hand, AI provides efficiency, speed, and new capabilities.

On the other hand, it changes how human contribution is valued.

And perhaps most importantly, it creates uncertainty.

“We know how to use it,” he said, “but what to do, we don’t know.”

In other words, the tools are available, but the direction is unclear.

When the discussion shifted to career paths, this uncertainty became even more pronounced.

Unlike earlier generations, where there was a visible ladder of progression, he does not perceive such a structure anymore.

Instead, everything feels short-term.

Months. Perhaps a year.

Adapt, adjust, continue.

At this point, he also brought in the question of background.

He spoke about inequality—not in abstract terms, but as lived experience. Access to education, technology, and resources is not evenly distributed. Even reaching a starting point requires effort.

Therefore, when he says he cannot see a clear path, it is not merely personal uncertainty.

It is structural.

On one side, there is hope—that things will improve, that opportunities will emerge.

On the other side, there is no defined roadmap to support that hope.

Eventually, the conversation moved into deeper territory.

If work becomes uncertain, then what gives life meaning?

At this stage, the pace slowed.

Because this question extends beyond economics and into existence itself.

Ismar approached it from a broader perspective, speaking about humanity across long stretches of time, about evolution, and about the possibility that species come and go.

For him, this was not an emotional question.

It was observational.

The planet continues. Life adapts. Humans are part of that process.

Ritesh, however, approached it differently.

Instead of stepping back, he brought the question closer.

To family.

To children.

To continuity.

Despite everything he had said about uncertainty—about jobs, skills, and the future—his answer here shifted.

“Yes,” he said, when asked whether having children gives hope.

And importantly, this was not based on certainty.

Rather, it was based on experience.

He reflected on generations—how his parents had their hopes, how he had moved forward from where they started, and how perhaps the next generation would go further still.

He could not define what that future would look like.

He could not guarantee stability.

However, he trusted the direction.

On one side, children represent hope, continuity, and a purpose beyond individual uncertainty.

On the other side, they represent responsibility in an unpredictable world.

And yet, despite the uncertainty, he chooses hope.

By the end of the conversation, there were no definitive answers.

No clear conclusions about artificial intelligence, career paths, or the future of work.

However, what emerged instead was something more subtle.

Between Ismar’s quiet, observational realism and Ritesh’s lived uncertainty, a shared understanding began to form.

The future, it seemed, cannot be fully controlled.

At the same time, it cannot be ignored.

And so, in the space between uncertainty and action, meaning is not found in prediction or certainty.

Rather, it is found in how we respond.

In the choices we make.

In the way we adapt.

And perhaps most importantly, in the quiet decision to continue forward—to accept, to question, to learn, and, when the time comes, to build something beyond ourselves.

Even when the path is unclear.

Even when the outcome is uncertain.

Because sometimes, hope is not a result of knowing.

It is a decision made in spite of not knowing.

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The Delicate Balance of a Golden Scale

By Janita Le Grange

There are busy weeks, and then there are Maxime weeks. When Fruitloop checks in with Maxime, she finds him in the middle of one of those impossible-looking stretches of life where everything seems to happen at once. Engineering exams are around the corner. A major French team gymnastics qualification is coming up. His apartment is half-packed, half-sold, and currently resembles what he jokingly calls a “camping apartment,” stripped of furniture and comfort as he prepares to move out. In between it all, he is traveling back to his parents, juggling school projects, and trying to keep one eye on the future while the present is sprinting at full speed.

For Maxime, life is not neatly divided into categories. It is one long, fast-moving stream of study sessions, train rides, sport, deadlines, and checklists. He explains to Fruitloop that work-life balance is, to him, the way a person organizes both work and personal life across days, weeks, and months. But that organization is never fixed. It changes depending on the moment. During exam periods, work takes over. The week becomes dedicated to revision, and social time shrinks. After the exams, however, he knows he will need to breathe again, reconnect with friends and family, and reclaim the parts of life that make the pressure worthwhile. His balance is flexible, responsive, and always under construction.

Fruitloop, ever practical and thoughtful, invites him to reflect more deeply. With his schedule so full—traveling to see his parents, competing in gymnastics, revising for exams almost immediately after arriving home, and preparing to leave campus on May 1st—there is no better topic for the day than work-life balance itself. Their meeting becomes less of a classroom exercise and more of a mirror held up to Maxime’s reality.

The two of them agree quickly that a perfect 50/50 split between work and personal life sounds nice in theory, but in practice, it is far more complicated. Maxime believes it may be possible for some people, especially those with unusual schedules like gymnastics coaches, whose work begins later in the day and leaves room for other projects or personal time in the mornings. But for someone in engineering, with demanding studies and serious ambitions, he sees that kind of symmetry as difficult to achieve. Fruitloop agrees. Some days lean heavily toward work, others toward personal life, and only occasionally does the scale sit perfectly in the middle.

Interestingly, Maxime does not see this irregular rhythm as a problem. In fact, he likes it. He thrives on variation. He does not enjoy repeating the same routine every day and seems energized by the need to adapt. His school schedule changes from week to week, and around it he must fit gymnastics, strength training, running, project work, revision, and time with friends. For him, that constant need to reorganize is not exhausting in itself—it is stimulating. Being forced to stay organized, alert, and flexible suits him. He knows many people need stability and routine, but he sees himself differently. He likes movement. He likes adjustment. He likes being in motion.

Still, even someone so driven has limits. When Fruitloop asks what non-work activity he refuses to give up no matter how busy life gets, Maxime’s answer is immediate: sport. Even if he occasionally skips a gymnastics session or a strength workout for a special reason, he needs at least some physical activity during the week. Exercise is not a luxury in his life. It is part of the structure that keeps everything else standing. Fruitloop offers her own essential non-work activity—sleep—and the discussion briefly turns into a lively ranking of life’s basics. Sleep, food, exercise: all are necessary, but both agree that without proper rest, everything else collapses. No concentration, no energy, no immune system, no capacity to function.

The conversation becomes especially interesting when it turns to technology and boundaries. Fruitloop asks how checking emails on a day off feels. Maxime admits that he checks his emails all the time—before sleeping, after waking up, on weekends, almost automatically. Not necessarily because everything is urgent, but because he wants to clear out spam, advertisements, and the constant digital noise that piles up if left untouched. Recently, he has even started experimenting with an AI assistant that may eventually help him check emails less often. Fruitloop, amused and sympathetic, describes her own battle with mysterious Spanish emails that have haunted her inbox for nearly a decade. She has translated them, tried to report them as spam, even attempted to reply and explain she is not the intended recipient, but nothing works. The messages still arrive, floating in defiantly every week.

But underneath the humor is a serious point: technology has made it much harder to disconnect. Maxime reflects on the difference between now and the past, recalling conversations with his father. Years ago, without smartphones, laptops, and constant connectivity, people could not really work from home the way they do now. Once they left the office, they returned to family life. Today, phones and laptops have erased that separation. Work can follow a person into the evening, into the weekend, and even into bed. Fruitloop remembers exactly that happening to her: taking her laptop to bed for a “quick” task and switching it off three hours later, wondering why she had let the boundaries disappear.

Maxime sees both sides of technology. On one hand, it has made people vastly more efficient and allowed companies to grow faster. On the other, it has made it far more difficult to cut off from work. Yet he also notices an irony in modern tools: now, new technologies like focus modes, notification controls, and AI assistants are being designed to protect people from the very overload earlier technologies created. In other words, people invented tools to work more, and now they are inventing tools to help them stop.

On one hand, it has made people vastly more efficient and allowed companies to grow faster.

When Fruitloop asks whether people should refuse to answer calls after a certain hour, Maxime gives an answer that reveals his entrepreneurial instincts. For him, it depends entirely on the context. If someone is working on a personal project or building something of their own, then availability matters. A late call might lead to a new opportunity, a project, a contract, a step forward. But if someone is simply an employee and their boss calls at nine in the evening, then it is reasonable to say no. In that distinction, Maxime reveals something important about himself: he already thinks like someone imagining a future beyond ordinary employment. He is not only studying engineering; he is thinking ahead to freelance work, personal contracts, and building a life on his own terms.

That future is already beginning to take shape. In the middle of all this chaos, Maxime shares some good news: he has found a house share and can finally tick that off his checklist. The list itself is still long—six or seven items remain, including exams, projects, and other related preparations for the UK—but the end is in sight. He can feel it. He is close enough now to see the finish line, even if the sprint is not over yet.

The physical cost of this pressure is not abstract for him. When Fruitloop asks whether he experiences any physical or mental symptoms when he works too much, Maxime answers with striking honesty. Yes, he does. When the stress builds, when sleep drops, when he works intensely from early morning until late at night for weeks at a time, his body sends a warning: his nose starts bleeding. For him, that is the unmistakable sign that balance has been lost. It is the body’s alarm bell. It means stop, breathe, rest, step back before the damage goes further. Fruitloop recognizes the seriousness of that sign immediately and adds her own observations about overwork—fatigue, brain fog, inability to concentrate, and even the loss of joy in things one usually loves.

Their discussion of boundaries becomes more practical when they talk about working from home. Maxime believes the best solution is a dedicated workspace, a specific part of the home reserved for work and left alone during personal time. Fruitloop agrees in principle, though she laughs at the reality of her own layout, where the front door forces her to move through the space anyway. And Maxime, still a student in a small apartment, admits that he often carries his laptop everywhere with him. Fruitloop teases him gently: he is still a student; he will learn. It is a warm reminder that adulthood often means discovering not just how to work hard, but how to stop.

The conversation also opens a thoughtful generational question: who has a harder time maintaining work-life balance, young people or older people? Maxime first imagines older people as more organized, more fixed in routine, more settled into stable timetables. But Fruitloop offers another perspective. Young people, she says, often feel compelled to prove themselves. They are eager, ambitious, ready to work harder and longer to climb, impress, and secure their place. An intern wants to become a manager; a young professional wants to rise. That hunger can easily consume personal life. Maxime understands the point, but also notes that his own future may not follow a single corporate path. For the next four months, yes, he expects to work intensely for a company and prove himself. But during his gap year, if he secures the right freelance contracts, he hopes to organize his days differently—to structure work around gymnastics, home life, and the freedom to decide when and how he works.

That image of the future fits Maxime perfectly: disciplined, ambitious, but determined to shape his own system rather than be swallowed by someone else’s.

And then, because every serious conversation deserves a little lightness, Fruitloop takes things in a wonderfully unexpected direction. If work-life balance were an animal, what would it be? Maxime chooses the panda, a creature whose version of balance is perhaps too relaxed to be realistic for either of them, but still a delightfully funny comparison. Fruitloop considers ants, then rejects them because they work too much, finally settling on her pet tarantula, who only moves when she is hungry and otherwise rests in perfect stillness. Balance, apparently, may look like a spider waiting patiently in silence.

If balance were music, Maxime knows exactly what it would sound like: a mix between techno and classical music, something calm and focused, with just enough pulse to energize the mind without disturbing it. It is the kind of music he can work to and relax to—a perfect reflection of his ideal life rhythm, where effort and calm are blended rather than opposed.

If balance were a vending machine snack, he imagines coffee for many people, but for himself, of course, hot chocolate. He does not drink coffee, and despite joking about needing to reduce his sugar addiction, hot chocolate clearly remains one of his small comforts. He adds that protein bars could also fit the theme: practical, energetic, and perhaps more aligned with his athlete’s lifestyle.

And if the feeling of leaving work on time with a clear mind could be tasted, Fruitloop paints the picture for him: cheesy pizza, comfort food, something warm and satisfying that signals relief and reward. Maxime agrees. It is a delicious answer to a question about peace.

At the very end, Fruitloop asks one last playful question: if there were a balance meter on his desk, showing when his work-life balance was just right, what color would it glow? Maxime does not choose a simple happy yellow or a soft pink. He chooses gold. Gold, because it represents the best one can hope for: a life where making money and building a future coexist with friendship, family, health, and joy. Gold, because true balance is rare and valuable. Gold, because for someone like Maxime—who is always chasing excellence in school, sport, and life—balance itself is something worth winning.

By the time the conversation ends, Fruitloop wishes him luck with his exhausting train rides, his exams, and the school project waiting for him in the coming weeks. Maxime, polite and focused as ever, heads off to yet another meeting, another task, another responsibility on the checklist. Yet what lingers from their exchange is not only the image of a busy student under pressure. It is the portrait of a young man learning, in real time, that ambition alone is not enough. To keep moving forward, he must also know when to pause, when to rest, when to adapt, and when to protect the parts of life that make all the work meaningful.

In Maxime’s world, balance is not neat. It is not still. It is not 50/50 every day. It is a moving target, revised on trains, between workouts, in half-empty apartments, and during quiet Sunday mornings with a laptop and hot chocolate. But perhaps that is what makes it real. Not perfect equilibrium, but the constant effort to keep everything from tipping too far. And somewhere in that effort, glowing softly above the chaos, is Maxime’s chosen color: gold.

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This week has been different. It’s quiet—almost too quiet. It’s the kind of heavy, expectant silence that makes your ears actually hurt from the lack of noise. When the Mayor asked, “How is everything going in the South?” I had to stop and think. It’s going, but it is quiet. Nothing is happening.

We are caught in a cold front. With rain almost every day, the sky is a permanent blanket of grey, and it looks and feels like winter has officially moved in. I think this has resulted in our strangely hushed week. I haven’t had to fight about anything; my son is doing homework on his own and has even started washing the dishes. He added last night, “I will wash dishes every day, except for Fridays.” I understand that—no homework and no chores on Fridays. It’s a policy I can get behind.

The Zen of the Nail Scroll

Slower evenings and better morning routines have taken over. Everything has just fallen into place. There is no rushing, no running around like a headless chicken in a spotlight. Meetings come easy; conversations even easier.

I even had time to sit down and scroll for ideas for my next nail appointment—and that is only in two weeks! Usually, I am scrambling the night before to find something I like, but this time, it’s different.

I’ve been guessing why this is happening, and I think I found the answer. During school breaks, there are no rules and almost zero responsibilities. But now, structure has returned. Routines fall into place, planning is done in advance, and the commitments are being met. With the rain, there has been no digging and no destroying of necessary infrastructure. We have Wi-Fi, water, and electricity. We wash laundry in smaller bundles and hang them inside to dry. No one is making a mess, no one is complaining, and I have the help I need from my husband and son. Happy wife = happy life.

Choosing the Battlefield

I’ve decided to choose my battles better. I ask myself: Will I still be angry about the muddy floor tomorrow? If the answer is no, then I don’t fight. Will I still be angry about the lost jacket on Friday? Probably yes. But will I let it affect my peace? No.

I’ve decided to choose my battles better. I ask myself: Will I still be angry about the muddy floor tomorrow? If the answer is no, then I don’t fight. Will I still be angry about the lost jacket on Friday? Probably yes.

I will still go to school on Friday morning and see if I can find the jacket among the other 100 missing ones. Will I stop caring at some point? Also yes. It doesn’t bother my son or my husband, so why should I care? The famous Game of Thrones quote says: “Winter is coming.” Winter is coming to South Africa faster than Usain Bolt. My husband and son will only care about that jacket when it gets cold. And then, I will pretend not to be bothered. That’s a white lie; deep down I will be screaming, “I TOLD YOU SO! I TOLD YOU TO FIND YOUR OWN JACKET!”

The Merciless Instructor

For weeks, it’s been chaotic with life placing all kinds of demands on me. Now that it’s peaceful, I somehow miss the chaos. Sensing this, my husband has shown his usual signs of impatience, and the Mayor has been… well, the Mayor. The less said about that, the better.

Which is why girl talk at my Zumba class is my only savior and escape. Or so I thought. Girls can compare notes, and we stick together. We exchange recipes for delicious health shakes and sometimes, how to murder various people—husbands, co-workers, zumba instructors. But would we then be truly happy?

The only problem is that at Zumba, everyone wanted to know where my son was, he joined me previously, and they probably liked him more than me. I am trying so hard to keep track of the steps that I have no time to chat. This is a particular challenge for a person used to multitasking. Moves change fairly quickly, and I get why I never got a spot in the cheerleading squad. My rhythm is the same as a robot’s, and it seems like I’ve lost all my coordination. When my arms should be up, they are down, when I have to move to the left, I move right, and it feels like my feet are cemented to the floor. And the instructor was merciless today! My body hurts, my knees are crying, and the aerobics absolutely broke my legs.

The Bridge and the Backup Plan

But then the tables turned. The only bridge we have in close proximity to cross the river to get to town will be closed today for maintenance and repairs. What!

This means we can take my son to school, but when we fetch him, we have to take a long scenic route on the outskirts of town—15 to 20 km longer just to get to school and back home. With schedules clashing and time constraints, I had to make another plan.

Luckily, my mom lives closer and on the other side of the bridge. Grandma will do school run duty today until I can drive the long way around to fetch him. Life happens, but it is always good to have a backup plan or a support system. Problem solved with a five-minute phone call. My peace of mind has been restored, and I am officially back in my Zen world.

But for now, I’m staying in the quiet. While contemplating how to dress my son for school next week on “Idiom day”.

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I sit there and I laugh a little already, because when I think about crazy co-workers, one face comes directly into my mind. There is no warm-up needed. His name was D, even today I am not completely sure, but I see him clearly.

He was like a walking parrot.

Brown shoes, green trousers, dark blue shirt, yellow jacket—everything at once. When my distributor told me, “Come, I show you this man,” I thought maybe it is a joke. But no, this was real. Before he even started with us, people from his old company, Metabo, warned us. They said, “If he comes to you, you must stop him. Wherever possible. Stop him.” That already tells you everything.

But still, he stayed. One and a half years.

And I tell you honestly, for me he was crazy—but I said, I can work with him. Others could not. Finally, the bosses said, “No, this is too difficult,” and they let him go. But I was stubborn. I thought, no, I can handle this. Maybe I was also a little crazy.

This man… he left broken companies behind him like empty bottles after a party. He spoke to big distributors and said things like, “500,000 euros? Nothing.” Or, “250,000 euros? Just a drop in the ocean.” He talked like money was water from the tap.

And I remember thinking, this is not normal. This is not how you build something. This is how you destroy it.

But you know… the funny thing is, people like this, they stay in your head. Not because they are good—but because they show you what not to do.

If I compare this to the military, I always say: the really crazy people are not in uniform. They are in business suits.

In the military, if someone is strange, okay—he is strange. But the system is strong. There are rules, structure, and consequences. In business, a crazy person can destroy numbers, relationships, trust… everything.

Still, the military has its own kind of madness.

I remember my friend, F.A. We were sitting in a vehicle, eight seats, rain coming down, and a young officer comes and asks politely, “Can I sit in the car?” And F.A. says, “No, we have no child seat.” You must stay outside.” And then—boom—the door closes, and we drive away.

Now imagine… if I were that officer, I would say, “Fis, come outside. You stand for one hour in the rain. That is an order.”

And he would have to do it.

This is the power of the system. You can make someone stand in the rain—not because it makes sense, but because you can. That’s also a kind of craziness.

This is the power of the system. You can make someone stand in the rain—not because it makes sense, but because you can. That’s also a kind of craziness.

But then, in between all this chaos, you meet people who are… different. People you would follow anywhere.

For me, one of these was M.P. He was a sales director, and I always say—he was a big human. Not big in size, but in heart.

His door was always open. You could go to him with anything—problems, ideas, nonsense—and he would listen. Really listen. And then he would find a solution, not only for the company, but for you as a person.

That is something I never forget.

When he left the company, it was like the ground moved under our feet. Everybody felt it. And after him… there came others. Many others. Some of them… I don’t even want to talk too much about.

At one point, I said to myself, “I cannot do this anymore.” And I left.

I ended up without a job. Just like that.

And then something happened that I still feel today.

A friend called me and said, “Be ready. Your phone will ring.” I thought he was joking. Maybe he drank too much or smoked something funny. But then… the phone rang.

K. H.

He said, “I want to meet you. Hamburg airport. Monday.”

So I go there. And we sit. And we talk. Two and a half hours. About work, about life, about everything. It felt… easy. Natural.

He brought me back.

But I also disappointed him later. I left again—for money, I say honestly. Like a prostitute, I say sometimes, laughing a little about myself. And he was hurt. Really hurt. And that stayed between us like a thorn.

Years later, I called him. I said, “Can we smoke a peace pipe?”

We met in a steakhouse. We talked. And I saw—he is a man who does not hold a grudge. That is rare. Very rare.

Now, when we meet with old colleagues, sometimes in Austria, sometimes traveling with a camper, he comes to see us. And I think, yes… this is a real boss. This is a real connection.

For me, a good co-worker or a good boss is very simple.

Just be as you are.

No theatre. No playing roles. No fake stories.

If I meet difficult people—and there are many—I don’t always fight. Sometimes I just keep distance. But if I have to work with them, then I try to find one small point. Something we both like. Maybe food, maybe a story, maybe a joke.

And then… you take them out of the office. Coffee. Lunch. Dinner.

You sit together, you eat, you drink—and suddenly, the door opens a little.

I learned this many times.

Even with people I didn’t like at the beginning.

Like O. from Berlin.

First time we meet, I looked at his camper and say, “These things… they stand on the street, and some crazy people make love inside for money.” I was not very polite.

Later that evening, he puts his hand on my stomach and says, “Oh, you are so fat.” I tell him, “Take your hand away and go to your….special truck.”

And then… we drink one beer. Maybe two. Maybe a Williams schnapps. And suddenly—we are friends.

Today we travel together. With camper, with our wives, making plans to go to the south of France. Eating, laughing, living.

Sometimes friendship starts exactly there—where you think it will never happen.

From all these years, I learned much more from the good bosses than from the bad ones.

The bad ones… they showed me what is wrong.

I remember one situation. A boss goes into a meeting and says, “We reduce the bonus by 2%.” Then outside, he says, “We give 4%.” I look at him and think, this makes no sense.

Or he pushes prices down so low that it feels like the money comes out of my private wallet.

And I said this openly: “This is my wallet. You take money from me.”

And suddenly, the conversation changes. Because now it is not numbers—it is personal.

That is something I believe strongly: business is business, yes. But when you make it human, when you make it personal, then people understand fairness.

If I would build my own company one day—a food testing company maybe—I would not start with CVs or numbers.

I would start with people.

I would talk 30% about work… and 70% about life. Family. Home. What they do in the evening. How they live.

And then I would invite everyone—with their families.

A big table. A barbecue. Food, wine, laughter.

And I would watch.

Because you can feel very quickly who is real, who is open, who fits.

In the end, everything comes back to this: people.

Crazy ones, good ones, difficult ones, loyal ones.

And if you are lucky, you find a few who stay. Who you can sit with, years later, maybe in a camper, maybe in a steakhouse, maybe just at the kitchen table—with a coffee—and you smile and think…

Yes. That was a good time.

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